英文书信范例

DearJohn,

IhavebeenseriouslylookingbackuponourrelationshipandgettingveryclearonwhatIneedanddesireoutofarelationship.

TheconclusionIhavecometoisthatwearetoodifferentinbothourpersonalityandourdesiredlifestylestobeabletosuccessfullylivetogetherwithjoy,bliss,goodcommunication,andinteraction.

Thisisnotaboutyouoraboutme"winningorlosing",oraboutoneofusbeingwrong--itisabouttwowaysofbeing...whichdonotfulfilleachother,orgotogether.ThoughIhadbeenopentohavingyouvisitwiththethoughtthatpossiblywecouldtryagain,afterthinkingaboutitalot,Irealizethatitisnotagoodidea.Iamveryclearthatwearenottherightpeopleforeachotheratthistimeinourlives.

Pleaseforgiveyourself,andme,foranymistakeswemadealongtheway...andrememberthatwebothhavegrownimmenselythroughbeingtogether...butthetimehascometomoveon.

SobasicallywhatIamsayingisthatIwouldliketocancelmyinvitationforyoutovisit.Ifeelatthistime,thatIneedtomoveonwithmylife,andhavingyoucomeandvisitwouldnotserveanypositivepurpose.Youneedtoacceptthatthisrelationshipisoverandopenyourselfuptoreceivingtheblessingsoftheuniverse...

Ithinkwebothneedtoletgoofthepast,begratefulforwhatwehadforatime,learnfromourexperiences,andmoveonfromthere.

DearestJohn,wehavebeenthroughalottogether...Ihavealearnedalotaboutmyself,asyouhavelearntalotaboutyourself.Atthispoint,wearebothreadytograduatetothenextlevelinarelationship...Whatwehavelearned,whetherwhileweweretogether,orwhetherafter,throughlookingbackonhowweoperatedtogether,willserveusinourfuturerelationships.

Ithasbeenmyexperience,thatallrelationshipsthatendaresimplyopeningthedoortoanotherlevelofjoy,andabetterrelationshipbuiltonwhatwehavelearntinthepast.SoIknowandtrustthatthereissomeoneouttherewhowillsupportyouinyourgrowthwhilelovingyouexactlythewayyouare...whichissomethingthatwewerenotdoingforeachother.Iconstantlyjudgedandcriticizedyou,inthesamemannerthatyoujudgedandcriticizedme...Outthereistheperfectpersonforyouthatwillloveyouandnotfindasinglethingtocriticizeaboutyouinthesamewaythatyouwillnotfindasinglethingtocriticizeaboutthem...Youwillacceptherassheis,evenwhileseeingthatsheisnot"perfect".

Donotseethisaslosingsomething,butratherashavinggainedknowledgeandwisdom...Everythingthatyoulearnedfromusbeingtogether,aswellasfromusbeingseparated,youwillbeabletoputinpracticeinyournextrelationshiptoavoidthetrapsthatwegotinto.

EVERYTHINGALWAYSWORKSOUTFORTHEBEST,andthisisnoexception.Trustinyourself,trustintheUniverse,trustinthepowerofLovethatrulesourlives.Pleasedon’tgetintofeelingsorryforyourselfandwantingtoenditall.Rather,thankGodforthelearningexperience,andaskfortheopennesstorecognizetheblessingsinyourlife.Theyarethere...openyourselfuptobeingyou,acceptingyourselfcompletelywithoutjudgment,andlovingyourselfunconditionally.

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