幸福是个过程(Happiness is a journey)

wealwaysconvinceourselvesthatlifewillbebetterafterwegetmarried,haveababy,thananother.thenwearefrustratedthatthekidsarentoldenoughandwellbemorecontetwhentheyare.afterthatwerefrustratedthatwehaveteenagerstodealwith.wewillcertainlybehappywhentheyareoutofthatstage.

wealwaystellourselvesthatourlifewillbecompletewhenourspousegetshisorheracttogether.whenwegetanicecar,andareabletogoonanicevocationwhenweretire.thetruthis,theresnobettertimethanrightnow.ifnotnow,when?ourlifewillalwaysbefilledwithchallenges.itsbesttoadmitthistoourselvesanddecidetobehappyanyway.oneofmyfavoritequotescomesfromalfredsouza.hesaid."foralongtimeithadseemedtomethatlifewasabouttobegin-reallife.buttherewasalwayssomeobstacleintheway,sometingtobegottenthroughfirest,someunfinishedbusiness,timestilltobeserved,adebttobepaid.

thenlifewouldbegin.atlastitdawnedonmethattheseobstaclesweremylife."thisperspectivehashelpedmetoseethatthereisnowaytohappiness.happinessistheway.sotreasureeverymomentthatyouhave.andrememberthattimewaitsfornoone.sostopwaitinguntilyoufinishschool,untilyougobacktoschool;untilyougetmarried,untilyougetdivorced;untilyouhavekids;untilyouretire;untilyougetanewcarorhome;untilspring;untilyouarebornagaintodecidethatthereisnobettertimethanrightnowtobehappy….

happinessisajourney,notadestination.so,worklikeyoudontneedmoney,lovelikeyouveneverbeenhurt,anddancelikenooneswatching