六级作文:Being,shy

beingshy

nearlyeveryoneisshyinsomeways.shypeopleareover-concerned(担心的)withtheirownappearanceandactions.worrisome(令人烦恼的)thoughtsoftenswirl(打旋)intheirminds:whatkindofimpression(印象)amimaking?dotheylikeme?doisoundstupid?ifshynessismakingyouuncomfortable,itmaybetimeforafewlessonsinself-confidence.shynesscanbeovercomewithdetermined(已下决心的)andpatienteffortsinbuildingself-confidence.youcanbuildyourconfidencebyfollowingsomesuggestions.

first,makedecisionnottoholdbackinconversation.whatyouhavetosayisjustasimportantaswhatotherpeoplesay.anddontturndownpartyinvitations(邀请)justbecauseofyourshyness.

second,prepareyourselfforbeingwithothersingroups.makealistofthegoodqualitiesyouhave.thenmakealistofideas,experiences,andskillsyouwouldliketosharewithotherpeople.thinkaboutwhatyouwouldliketosayinadvance(先行的).thensayit.

third,ifyoustartfeelingself-conscious(不自然的)ingroup,takeadeepbreathandfocusyourattentiononotherpeople.remember,youarenotalone.otherpeopleareconcerned(担心的)aboutdisappointments(失望).profit(有利)themaslessonsinsteadoffrustration(frustration).

aseachofusisanindividual,webehaveinourownpersonalways.thebetterweunderstandourselves,theeasieritbecometoliveuptoourfullpotential.nooneevergetsoverbeingshycompletely,butmostpeopledolearntolivewiththeirshyness.evenentertainers(请客者)admitthattheyoftenfeelshy.theyworkatfightingtheirshyfeelingsotheycanfacethecamerasandthepublic.

justmakingtheefforttocontrolshynesscanhavemanyrewards(报答).butperhapsthebestreasontofightshynessistogiveotherpeopleachancetoknowmoreaboutyou.