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WhenIfirstsetmyeyesonafatherandhisdaughter,Iheardthefatheraskabouthisdaughter'sschoollife.Tomysurprise,thegirltoldhisfathertoreadherblogsothathecangetwhathewants.
Now,theInternethasbeenplayinganincreasinglyimportantroleinourday-to-daylife.Ithasinfluencedusalot,especiallyonourinterpersonalcommunication.
Foronething,theInternetmakestheinterpersonalcommunicationmoreconvenient.Wecancontactwitheachothernomatterwhenandwhere.TheInternetmakesfulluseoftimeandspace.What’smore,wecanalsoshareourdailylifeandknowledgethroughQQ,MSN,andblogwithothers.Foranotherthing,theInternetspeedsupourinterpersonalcommunication.Wecansavetimetodoourwork.However,theInternetalsobringsaboutmanyproblems,suchassafetyproblems,cheatingandsoon.ManypeoplespendtoomuchtimeontheInternet,andtheydon'thavetimetointeractwithpersoninreallife,whichresultintheabsenceofabilityincommunicationinreality.
IthasbothadvantagesanddisadvantagestointeractthroughtheInternet.Wecangettotheprobleminourworkandstudy.Lastbutnotlest,wehavetotalkwithpeopleanddevelopourabilitytocommunicateinreality.
Recentlyonthemagazinetoseesuchanarticle"and"show"aboutthreewords",todayIalsogiveyouthestory.
Sincechildhoodisbrother"heels.Brotheroneverytesttogetthefirstplace,andIlikehimselftookthesamehappy.Seeapersonsay:"mybrotherbehungry,examinationalwaysfirst!"Thatjoyisnoonecanrealize.Afathersaidtome:"againnotyourexammustfirst,youhappywhat!Remember,don'ttakesomeoneelse'sstufftoshowyourself!"ThenIrememberthefirstsentenceon"show"words--don'ttakesomeoneelse'sstufftoflaunthimself.
Byourownintelligentanddiligenttestalsoalwaystakethefirst,Ibegantosecretlypleased.Ithinkeverythinginmyeyesbecomessmall.ClassmateaskmeaquestionandIalsolovegrievance,stillpiepiesaid:"sosimpleyouallcan't,reallystupid,youseeme!"Ismygloat,fatherandtalked:"youcanself-confident,butcannotproud,remember,don'talwaysshowyourself!"ThenIrememberthesecondsentenceabout"show"words--don'talwaysflaunthimself.
Whenshewenttocollege,intheschoolorganizationofthechesstournamentprize,bringhometoatrophy.Littlenephewsaw,isverylike,taketoplay.HetakeatrophyandhisPALStogether","saidhisboastabouthowgreatuncle,hisfriendrightawayinhis"FengReShenMing".Fathersawsaytome:"youdon'tlethimtakeyourthings,andthatwillonlyspoilbad.Remember,don'tletotherstakeyourthingstoshowoff!"ThenIrememberthethirdsentenceon"show"saying-don'tletotherstakeoneselfthingtoshowoff.
Fathersaidonlybriefthreewordsbutletmeforalifetime.
Thefatherofthreewordsarefalsetotheperson'sbad,istopursuehighmoralincentive.Whenyouputoutthe"showoff",selectmodesty,thenyou'llforalifetime.
Communicationbetweenpeopleisofutmostimportance.Theimportancecannotbestressedtoomuch.
ItissaidintheBiblethatonceuponatime,humanscommunicatedwitheachotherinonelanguage.SotheyattemptedtobuildtheBabelTowertocommunicatewithGod,onlytofindsuchdreamwasacastleintheair.Intheaftermath,humansweretrappedintotroublesduetothemisunderstandingsbetweenthem.ThejealousGodplungedusintosuchbitterness.Evennow,peoplewithdifferentracesandreligionsaredraggedintoendlesswars.Peoplearecryinganddying!Suchconsequencesarerooteddeeplyinthelackofcommunication.Therefore,lackofcommunicationwillleadtoperishofhumanbeings.
Onthecontrary,mutualunderstandingcanbewell-establishedbetweenpeopleifwecommunicatewitheachother.Thatis,therapportbetweentwocountrieswillbestrengthenedandthemisunderstandingwillbereducedifthereisadialoguechannel.Likewise,friendscanbecomecloseriftheyarguewitheachother.Noonelikestobutitisnecessarytobehealthy.Argumentsbetweenpeopleareawayofcommunication,bywhichwecanfindasolutiontotheconflictionsbetweenus.Consequently,wepromotethemutualunderstanding.
Toconclude,throughcommunication,mutualunderstandingcanbepromotedandfosteredbetweenpeoplewithdifferenceraces,religions,sexandideologies.Onewayistoargue(nottotallymeansquarrels)duringthecommunicationtoclarifythedifferentviews.Lackofcommunicationwillsurelyleadtoperishofmankind.
Inadditiontotheuniversityknowledge,themostcriticalandmostbasicisthehumancapacity,
Whereinthecultureinterpersonalskillsisparticularlyimportant.
Wecollegestudentsasthesuccessorsofsocialistconstructionisparticularlyimportanttoestablishgoodinterpersonalrelationships.Universityisanimportantturningpointtowardsinterpersonalsocialization,intotheuniversity,
Youwillencounter
Allaspectsofrelationships:betweenteachersandstudents,betweenstudentsandclasses,therelationshipbetweentheindividualandtheotherschools
Wait.Builtontheuniversitycampusgoodrelationships,formasolidarity,vibrantenvironmentthatwillbenefitstudentsintheformationanddevelopmentofahealthypersonalitytraits.
Howtohandlerelationships,forafewyearsofcollegelifeandfuturecareersuccessitisessentialtodevelopgoodinterpersonalefficiencycapability,notonlytheneedsofuniversitylife,butalsointhefuturetomeettheneedsofsociety.
Anocommunicativeability,asboatonlandisneverdrifttothemagnificentseatogo.
Whyinterpersonalrelationshipssoimportant?First,interpersonalexchangeofinformation,
Animportantwaytoacquireknowledge;second,interpersonalindividualself-understanding,
Animportantmeansofself-improvement;third,interpersonalisacollectivegrowthandsocialdevelopmentneeds.Overtheyears,studentsinthecollegeentranceexaminationbatonlong,
Toomuchemphasisonthepursuitofachievementwhileignoringtheotherqualitiesofcultureandotherinterpersonalskills.Afterenteringtheuniversities,
Fewschoolshaveaspecialsystemtrainingcourses,resultinginsomestudentsahighIQ,EQisverylow,
OftenProcessing
Howtogetalongwellwithothers,communicate,communicate.Intheuniversitycampusjobfairheld,employeecommunicationandcommunicationskillsincreasinglybecomethemaindrivingforceforenterpriseinthemarketcompetitiontowin,
Thustheemployerintherecruitmentofmoreattentionseekers"EQ"
.Facedwiththeemployeroutofthetermsofemployment,moreandmorestudentsfeeltheimportanceofinterpersonalskills.
Thepictureistalkingaboutastoryaboutneighborhood.Twoladieslivingintheoppositeapartmentssay“hello”whentheyhappentomeeteachotherinthecorridor.Oneofthemsays,“Imovedhere5yearsago,butInevermetyoubefore.CouldIaskyournameplease?”Theothersays,”Ihavebeenherefor6years.HowshouldIcallyou?”
Itseemsveryridiculousthatpeoplelivingsoneardon’tknoweachotherforsuchalongtime.However,thiskindofstoryisperformedeverywhere.Itistheexactreflectionofinterpersonalrelationshipsinthemodernworld.Inthemodernworld,mostpeopleliveinapartments.Theyclosetheirdoorsandnevergooutassoonastheygethomefromwork.Iftheylivealone,theywillkilltheirtimebywatchingTVorreadingmagazines.Theydon’thaveanyconnectionsevenwiththeirclosestneighbors,whoseemnodifferentfrompeopletheymeeteverydayinthestreet.Theybecomemoreandmoreindifferent.
Thisphenomenonisnogoodtous,nortooursociety.Peoplewillfeellonelymoreandmore.Theworldbecomessoindifferent.Interpersonalrelationshipsarenotharmonious.It’stimethatwetooksomemeasurestoimproveit.Peoplelivinginthesamezonecanbeorganizedtohavesomeactivitiestogether.Weshouldcallonpeopletobefriendlytoeachother.Asapopularsongsays,”Ifeverybodygivesalittlelovetoeachother,theworldwillbecometheseaoflove.”
Goodlisteningcanalwaysshowrespect,promoteunderstanding,andimprovepeople'srelationship.
Manypeoplethinkthatparentsshouldlistenmoretotheirchildren,sotheycanunderstandthembetter,andfinditeasiertonarrowthegenerationgap.
Teachersshouldlistenmoretotheirstudentssothattheycanmeettheirneedsbetter.Thenteacherscanplacethemselvesinabetterrelationshipwiththeirstudents.
Studentsshouldlistenmoretotheirclassmates,astheywillhelpandlearnfromeachother.Thentheybuildtheirfriendship
Myopinionisthateachofusshouldlistenmoretoothers.Firstshowyourrespectandneverstopotherstalkinguntilltheyfinishtheirtalk.Second,showthatyouareinterestedbyasupportivesilenceoraknowingsmile.Third,beopen-mindedtodifferentopinionseventhoughyoudon’tlikethem.Generrallyspeaking,goodlisteningcanreallyenableustogetclosertoeachother.
Humaninteraction,morethanchangingeachother,buttoaccepteachother,ifwanttochangeeachother,itisnotlife,thatiswar.Destinyisnotamatterofchance,itisamatterofchoice,itisnotathingtobewaitedfor,itisathingtobeachieved.Detourstraightpeoplearesmart,becausefindashortcut;thestraightroadbendsareopen-minded,becausetheycanseemorescenery.Theroadisnotfeet,roadintheheart.
Withtheindifferentattitude,goodreconcileoneselftoone'ssituationlife.--"DuLalapromotion"
Tocomesoonerorlater,wanttolovethough,wewhoalsocan'twintheraceagainsttime.Calmandindifferentinthefaceofeverything,youmeetpeopleyoulike,wanttocherishthefate.Whetherisitright?Youthelifeofthetraveler,oralong-termfriend,lifeiswonderfulmemories.Thereareafewrealfriendsarerareinthislove,pleasedon'tcare,cherishthepresent.
Truelove,iscanletapersontoucheternity.Theman,tenyears,twentyyearslater,stillstayinourhearts,letuslookback,surprisedfeeltheheartbeat,ascloseasyesterday,alarmedbythepassageoftime,ifashort.Maybetoday,peoplehavebeenscatteredinthesea,thewindscatteredthecloudsfloatpastalready,unchanged,butsuchahard,stillinourheart.Sunflower"--not"
Twopeopletogether,begintoalwaysbestruckwithfright,worryaboutpersonalgainsandlosses,within-depthunderstanding,mysteryfade,willslowlylosetheirfreshness,passionfadeaway.Atthistime,themostimportantcommunication,maynolongerbeveryworriedabouteachother,butthereisatacitunderstandingisproducedinsufficientcommunicationandtrust,andarun-inverygoodfriends,relaxandpractical,isagoodembodimentoflove.Timeisspentpassion,atthesametime,timewillaccumulatedeep.
Painisinevitable,thewoundsoftheflowersinfullbloom,dottedwithourmemoriesofthelandscape.Eachtimetheinjured,letusconsider,searchingforthemeaningoflife;letusmature,alwayshavetogiveupsomething,tobidfarewelltotheiroriginal;letusstrong,healthewoundscanletusbearmore;letustreasure,easygetwhodon'tcare,onlypainafterjustunderstand,oncelostissoprecious.
Everyrelationshipisasacreddance.Therearemomentswhenpartnersaresoalignedthattheymoveasone.Atothertimes,theystruggleoverwhoisleadingandsteponeachother’stoes.Peaceandsuccessinliferequireustobemastersofrelationships.
Severalessentialprinciplessupporthealthyrelationships.Integratethesebasictenetsintoyourviewofyourselfandthepeopleinyourlife,andyouwillexperiencearenewedsenseoffreedomandoptimisminyourrelationships.
1.Weareresponsibleforourownemotionallife.
Ifwearetoexperiencecomfortable,nourishingrelationships,wehavetorelinquishtheideathatsomeoneelsecanmakeusfeelacertainway.Ifweholdanotherpersonresponsiblewhenweareupset,wesurrenderourpower,whichmakesuslesscapableofcreatingtheoutcomeweseek.Ifthereissomethingthatislackinginoneofyourcorerelationships,castofftheroleofvictimandcommittocreatingtheloveyoudeserve.
2.Healthyrelationshipsarebaseduponadeeprootedconvictioninequality.
Ego-rootedrelationshipsreinforceinsecurities.Whenonepersoncriticizes,demeans,orassertsauthorityoveranother,itmaytemporarilyimprovetheself-esteemofonebyloweringanother’s,butthisassumptionofpowerisalwaysvulnerable.Relationshipsbaseduponmutualrespectliberateenergythatbecomesavailableforcreativity.
Thisprincipleisofparticularimportancewhentherelationshipisbetweenanadultandachild.Itisessentialfortheparenttorecognizethechild’sequalityonthelevelofthesoul.Ifthisintentionispresentthroughoutchildren’supbringing,theywilldevelopasenseofdignityandrespectthatwillservethemthroughouttheirlives.
3.Consciouscommunicationbuildsnurturingrelationships.
Determinewhatyouneedandaskforit.Teachthepeopleinyourfamilytoidentifytheirneedsandexpressthemselvesinwaysthatincreasethelikelihoodthattheirneedswillbemet.
Showyourchildrenhowtogetneedsmetwithoutresortingtoemotionalescalation.Yourbehaviorprovidesthemostcompellinglesson.
4.Givewhatyouseek.
Humanbeingshavefourbasicneedsinarelationship:attention,affection,appreciation,andacceptance.Wegiveattentionbymakingeyecontact.Weexpressaffectionbyconnectingphysicallywithsensitivityandpermission.Wedemonstrateappreciationbytellingandshowingpeoplethattheyaddvaluetoourlives.Weprovideacceptancebycultivatinganinternalconversationofrecognizingourselvesintheotherandtheotherinourselves.
Begenerouswiththepeopleinyourlifeandyouwillspontaneouslyseetheseexpressionsreturningtoyouinkind.Ifyouhavechildren,showerthemwithattention,affection,appreciation,andacceptanceandwatchthemflourish.
5.Rememberthatlifeisshort.
Enjoywhatyouhave.Don’twastetimeindulginginpettygrievances.Wesometimesavoidhealingourrelationships,becauseweanticipatetherewillbeplentyoftimeinthefuture.Dowhatyoucanfromyoursidetocreatepeacenow.Freeyourheartfromgrievancesandregretsnow.Donotallowyourpresenttobetrappedinthepast.
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